A Thanksgiving of Presence and Gratitude
- Diana L. Martin, Ph.D.

- Nov 27
- 6 min read
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Thanksgiving has always been a holiday woven with warmth, connection, and the grounding reminder of what truly matters. But as the years shift and life evolves, the way we celebrate can evolve too — not because something is missing, but because we ourselves are growing. This Thanksgiving, I feel that sense of growth and renewal more deeply than ever. Not as a heaviness or a longing for what was, but as a beautiful awareness of where I am now and where life is gently leading me.
There’s something special about the season itself — the crispness in the air, the soft glow of early sunsets, the comfort of familiar flavors filling the kitchen. Everything seems to invite us to slow down, breathe deeply, and take in the richness of the present moment. And that’s exactly what I want to embrace this year: presence, gratitude, joy, and the excitement of creating traditions that reflect who I am today.
Thanksgiving isn’t only a day on the calendar. It’s a feeling. A state of being. A chance to gather with the people we love, share a meal, share stories, and remember that life is made up of moments like these — simple, meaningful, heart-centered.
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🌿 Living Fully in the Present
Presence is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves — and each other — during the holidays. Life moves quickly, and holidays can sometimes slip into routine. But this year feels different. This year invites more intention. More awareness. More appreciation for the beauty of right now.
Being present doesn’t require perfection. It just requires us to notice. To slow our pace long enough to feel the warmth of being together. To appreciate the details — the sound of laughter in the kitchen, the way everyone gravitates toward the same stories year after year, the comfort of familiar foods, the simple joy of gathering around the table.
Sometimes presence shows up in tiny moments that would be easy to overlook:
The clinking of silverware
The glow of candles on the table
A shared smile
The smell of spices warming the house
A quiet conversation in a corner of the living room
A moment of deep breath before the meal
A child’s laughter
A warm hug at the door
These are the things that make Thanksgiving meaningful. Not the perfection of the table setting or the number of dishes cooked — but the moments where our hearts soften and we recognize the abundance already around us.
This year, I want to invite myself — and anyone reading this — to be fully here. To put down the distractions, step away from the rush, and just be. Let the holiday unfold naturally. Let the memories form on their own. Let gratitude rise up, not because we force it, but because presence allows us to see how much we truly have.
🕯️ Gratitude as a Way of Being
Gratitude isn’t just something we talk about on Thanksgiving — it’s a practice that shapes our mindset, our health, our energy, and even the way we interact with others. Gratitude opens the heart, softens the edges of life, and anchors us in a sense of wholeness. When we choose gratitude, we choose abundance. We choose joy. We choose peace.
This season, my gratitude is wide and full.
I’m grateful for my children — their love, their strength, their humor, and the way they remind me daily what truly matters.
I’m grateful for the people whose paths have crossed mine, who support me, who show up with kindness and authenticity.
I’m grateful for the quiet moments — the morning walks, the sunlight breaking through the trees, the moments of reflection that bring clarity.
I’m grateful for health, for growth, for the resilience that carries me forward in everything I do.
I’m grateful for the opportunities ahead, for the newness of this season in my life, and for all the possibilities waiting to unfold.
And I’m grateful for Thanksgiving itself — a holiday centered not around gifts or busyness, but around togetherness and appreciation.
Gratitude transforms the holiday from a gathering into an experience. It allows us to see the richness in the simple things. It reminds us that life is precious and the people in it even more so.
🍲 Traditions Old and New
Holiday traditions are beautiful because they connect our past, present, and future. They remind us of where we’ve been, anchor us in where we are, and gently shape where we’re going.
Some traditions stay the same because they feel like home — a certain recipe, a specific dish served every year, a ritual of watching a movie or playing a game.
Other traditions evolve. They grow with us. They change as our families change. They adapt to who we are becoming.
This year, I’m feeling inspired to blend the familiar with the new. Maybe that looks like:
Preparing a favorite recipe from my childhood
Adding a new plant-based dish that reflects the way I nourish myself now
Starting the morning with a short gratitude meditation
Taking a walk after the meal to breathe in the season
Lighting candles and setting intentions for the coming year
Listening to music that lifts the spirit
Sharing stories — not as a way of comparing past to present, but as a way of celebrating the tapestry of our lives
Traditions can be playful, intentional, heart-centered, or beautifully simple. There’s no right or wrong way to celebrate. What matters is that the tradition brings joy, connection, and meaning.
And sometimes, the most powerful traditions are the ones we create in the current chapter of our lives — traditions that reflect who we are becoming.
💛 The Heart of Family
Family has always been at the core of Thanksgiving. Not in a picture-perfect way, but in a real, genuine, deeply human way. Whether your family is big, small, biological, chosen, or somewhere in between, the beauty of Thanksgiving is the togetherness it brings.
For me, family is a source of grounding. A reminder of love, continuity, and belonging. My children, in particular, bring so much meaning to this holiday. They are my greatest joy, my greatest purpose, and the people who make everything brighter. Thanksgiving is a chance to celebrate them — their personalities, their humor, their passions, their presence in my life. It’s a chance to be fully with them, without distraction, and simply appreciate who they are.
It’s also a chance to reflect on how far we’ve all come and how much love continues to surround us.
When we’re together — laughing, talking, eating, storytelling — there is a sense of completeness that fills the room. That’s the heart of Thanksgiving. Not the menu, not the décor, but the people who bring warmth to the table.
🎉 Excitement for What’s Ahead
This holiday season feels like the beginning of something new — not because of dramatic changes, but because of a shift in energy. A sense of renewal. A sense of embracing life with open hands and an open heart.
I’m excited for:
New traditions
New memories
New reasons to smile
New moments of connection
New ways of celebrating
New ways of honoring the people I love
New ways of being present
New chapters opening naturally and beautifully
Thanksgiving is the gateway to a season of joy, reflection, light, and celebration. And this year, it feels aligned, grounded, and genuinely uplifting.
🌟 A Thanksgiving of Wholeness
So this year, my intention is simple:Be present. Be grateful. Be joyful. Be whole.
I want to savor the flavors, the conversations, the laughter, the meaning behind the traditions. I want to notice the details, appreciate the people around me, and let the essence of Thanksgiving settle deep into my spirit.
I want to honor the love that has always surrounded my life — past, present, and future — without dipping into sadness or longing, but instead embracing the fullness of gratitude.
I want to celebrate the new traditions I’m creating, the person I am becoming, and the life that continues to unfold with beauty and purpose.
Most of all, I want to be fully here. Fully alive. Fully thankful.
🍁 Closing Thoughts
Thanksgiving is more than a date — it’s a reminder. A reminder of abundance. A reminder of love. A reminder of connection. A reminder to slow down and take everything in.
This year, may your home feel warm. May your heart feel full. May your table be surrounded by people who appreciate and uplift you. May your traditions bring comfort and joy. May your memories bring gratitude. And may your present moment feel rich with possibility.
From my heart to yours —Happy Thanksgiving. May your season be filled with presence, peace, and the deepest gratitude.
With Love and Light,
Diana
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